Identifying a narcissist can be challenging because they often exhibit charming and charismatic qualities early in a relationship. However, there are hidden signs that may indicate you're with a narcissist. Keep in mind that these signs should be considered in the context of a pattern of behavior, rather than isolated incidents.

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Here are five hidden signs: 

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Lack of Empathy: Narcissists often struggle with genuine empathy. While they may be skilled at mimicking emotions, they may not truly understand or share in the feelings of others. They may dismiss or belittle your emotions, especially if those emotions are not directly related to them.

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Grandiosity: A narcissist may have an inflated sense of self-importance. They might exaggerate their achievements, talents, or abilities. Pay attention to how often they boast about themselves and their accomplishments, as well as how they react to your successes

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Manipulative Behavior: Narcissists are often skilled manipulators. They may use tactics such as gaslighting (making you doubt your own perceptions or sanity), guilt-tripping, or playing the victim to control and dominate the relationship. They may also use charm and flattery to get what they want.

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Lack of Accountability: Narcissists may struggle to take responsibility for their mistakes or shortcomings. Instead, they might blame others, make excuses, or deny any wrongdoing. If you find that your partner consistently avoids accountability, it could be a red flag.

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Boundary Violation: Narcissists may have difficulty respecting personal boundaries. They may invade your privacy, be excessively controlling, or disregard your need for space and autonomy. This can manifest in various ways, such as constant monitoring of your activities or attempting to isolate you from friends and family.